I had my first holy communion with my elder
brother at a Catholic Church in Sembawang, Singapore. We had to dress up in
white for the occasion. White clothes were easily available. In those days we
used to wear white canvas shoes to school but my father wanted us to wear white
leather shoes on that day. So we went from one shoe shop to another looking for
white leather shoes. Most shops had leather shoes only in black or brown. A few
shops did have white leather shoes, but they had them only in adult sizes. At
last, we came to a shop which had white leather shoes for children. They were
expensive. My father bought them.
At church, I noticed most of the others
were wearing white canvas shoes. I could not understand why my father took the
trouble to get us white leather shoes. I am sure he wanted us to be well
dressed for the occasion. Later on, when I began to understand how some of our
relatives speak, I realised that another reason could be that he wanted to
avoid listening to their sarcastic remarks.
After the function at the church we went to
a studio and got a photograph taken. Then there was a party at home. I never
wore those shoes after that day.
You had a very good father.
ReplyDeleteyes dr.mathew, he was a good man.but i did not like leaving singapore for india. he made the decision when i was about fifteen and i could do nothing about it.
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